
Italian actress Valeria Golino (Rain Man, Hot Shots!, Indian Runner,  Respiro among others) makes an assured directorial debut with  Honey/Miele, a drama about a woman who assists suicides for living. It's  a beautiful film that plays out like a great piece of music accompanied  by strong performances.
It was quite nerve wracking for me to  meet Golino because I had a crush on her since I was young. Still  stunning with her penetrating green eyes, kinky curls and smokey voice,  she made my job of concentrating on my notes very difficult. But soon  her unguarded candidness and enthusiasm got the better of me and we had a  great conversation (I hope).
You  are an established actor, working with a lot of different directors  throughout your career. Was directing always in the back of your mind?
It  was. It was in the back of my mind very often, sometimes more conscious  and sometimes dormant. But I seldom talked about it (in public) because  I found it very tedious to talk about your dreams, or things you are  not doing. You might do that with your relatives or your loved ones, you  know, talking about your desires and all that. But these are the things  you talk about when you actually do it. So yes. I've had the desire to  direct for a long time.
What made you to decide on Miele as your directorial debut?
There  are different levels to this question I can answer. The more official  one, official to me too, is that I read a book A nome tuo by Mauro  Covacich. It seemed to me very interesting so I got the rights to the it  and of course I changed it completely, as it often happens when you  make an adaptation. But the book gave me this inspiration to direct.  Having said that, I also came out of painful experiences of death in my  family where nothing was said, nothing was ever talked about. It was as  if death wasn't part of what was going on in our lives. There was never a  necessary courage for us to talk about that someone we love was  passing. So my idea of wanting to be a director and reading Covacich's  book and the frustration I felt in my life- the fear of facing death all  came together. I don't say this very often. I usually answer with the  'official' version. I think choosing the subject to direct is always  personal. Even we don't talk about our lives, there is always an element  that is autobiographical in whatever we create.
What's  interesting about Miele is she is always dealing with death but she  finds life in a very unexpected source. She finds it in a suicidal  person.
Exactly. It's that suicidal person who helps her  to be more alive. He looks at her and gives her a chance to look at her  own pain. That's what it is. While she assists other people to die, she  does it with tremendous empathy but not with real pain. Keeping distance  is a necessary tool in what she does. And that's why she stops doing it  because you can't help somebody die if you feel too much pain.
So yes, her change comes from a man who wants to die. And she wants him to live! The movie has a lot of...
It has a lot of layers. It's a beautifully drawn character study, embodied by Jasmine Trinca.
She plays the role with very rare grace.
So how did you decide on Jasmine in a main role?
I  had her in mind since the beginning of the writing process. I thought  of her in the role not for any rational reason, really. She just kept  appearing in my thoughts when I was writing the script. The somatic  traces of her just kept coming. Having said that, I did a lot of screen  tests with other actresses, as if trying to forget her. I also did three  screen tests with her and and she wasn't so good in two of them. But I  knew it had to be her. Don't get me wrong she is a fantastic actress.  Carlo Cecchi (who plays Carlo Grimaldi), the same thing. When you are  creating something, most of the times, you just have to surrender to  your intuition. It's not 'who is the most popular?', 'who is the best in  the market right now?' If your intuition is working and you have these  two people in your head from the beginning, you go with it. And I got  who I wanted. I didn't get some compromise.
I know Jasmine from Nanni Moretti's THE SON'S ROOM and BEST OF YOUTH-
Of course.
This  is a very different, darker role for her. But at the end of the film,  she has that recognizable million dollar smile back again. And the  universe was all right again.
Her smile is more powerful when you don't see it much.
Very true!
You  see your childhood and joy and hope in that smile. I made her smile in  the movie only two or three times because her smile is so powerful, with  her crooked teeth and everything.
I hope she never fixes her teeth! (we laugh)
So  I strategically used her smile since it's that powerful. If you keep  seeing her smile it dilutes the effect! And she smiles most when she is  with Cecchi, because he's funny!
Maybe  it's just my limited imagination but I feel a lot of  actor-turned-directors put themselves in the movie or mold their main  actors in their own image: Robert Redford directed Brad Pitt in RIVER  RUNS THROUGH IT. Sean Penn directed Viggo Mortensen in INDIAN RUNNER in  which you star in. I was thinking about MIELE the same way. Which brings  me the question -- of course, Jasmine and you are physically very  different...
But there are similarities.
Could you elaborate on that?
Jasmine  is not a technical actress, meaning she is not a schooled actress, like  me. No technique is involved whatsoever in our acting. We are very...  raw. Of course I have more experience. I had many years to refine my  tools and to create some kind of technique I had to create on my own.  And there is a vibration, aura about Jasmine as a human being I  recognize. It's something very familiar to me.
It's true that  it's a role that I would've loved to play if a director wanted me. If it  was offered to me when I was thirty, I would've played that role really  well. It's a different story when I'm the director. I wanted a young  woman to play that role. That's why I dismissed myself. When I was  reading the script, I felt it was totally in my realm of roles. But more  I thought about it and directing the movie myself, I realized that I am  too old for this role. A woman in her forties has a gravitas that comes  with the age and experience. In that role I wanted to show the  possibility of change.
I guess one of the reasons why I chose her  is also that there is a familiarity in her acting. It's physical thing  too. She started to behave like me. As I was telling her to do it this  and that, she started to reinterpret what was being shown. All good  actors do that. she is a great actress.
Do  you treat directing the same way as your acting, developing your own  techniques as to how to put things together? Did you get ideas from many  different directors you worked with over the years?
I  learned so much from the directors I worked with. So much! There is no  doubt. Every time I did a movie I learned. There were certain directors  who taught me things about how to direct actors, others, working with  images and how to create a scene. I've done 80 movies, so all this time  there were so much to learn. Not always, but very often I worked with  very talented people, so I stole a lot from them. There is nothing more  that gives me satisfaction than stealing a shot! (laughs)
But I  mean by the time it comes through me, filtered through all different  circumstances and my imagination, it becomes mine. It may have come from  Jane Campion or Gus Van Sant, but now it's different. It's mine. It's  still beautiful because that's how art works. Reiteration of thoughts  that comes in different periods but filtered by the person who's doing  it at the time. I love that. It gives me a sense of belonging. Stealing  gives me the sense of belonging! (we laugh)
The  thing is MIELE is such a polished, well accomplished film. It moves  along very fast then there is this tranquil moments. It has that  fluidity almost like-
This is what I told my crew and collaborators when we started shooting. This movie is like music.
Yes!
It  moves fast then it stops, then starts again. It's the rhythm of the  music I wanted to give. There is a rhythm to it but not for the sake of  speed. It's more like giving a pulse, a breath.
You  captured it so beautifully. There are so many beautiful shots in the  movie. And the music, my god! Are those songs what you usually listen  to?
A lot of it is what I listen to. But as you know there  are many different types of music playing. For me it was a fantastic  game- I didn't use a normal movie score as a running commentary. All the  music is from the movie not outside of it. What Miele listens to is the  music that cools her. And when she is with Carlo, they listen to  different music. when they first meet, he is listening to this soprano  singing Granados. Then we hear 70s French music. It's all the music I  listen to but I could distribute it and I didn't care if it's new, old,  in fashion or not. I was so free, it was one of my favorite moments  making this movie.
You have a great taste in music.
Thank you.
Some fans of the movie already made a MIELE youtube soundtrack list. I was listening to it all day.
Really? That's so cool. I'm glad.
I  had written Talking Heads' Nothing But Flowers into the script. Then  there was a problem of getting the rights. We were asking ourselves  'Miele is a very small budget movie. How can we afford this?' Then  circumstances go that Paolo Sorrentino, before The Great Beauty, makes  this movie called, This Must be the Place (tribute to Talking Heads). So  Sorrentino and my producer Viola Prestieri (who also produced  Sorrentino's movies) know David Byrne, so I go to him and ask if he  could give me the song for basically nothing and he says, "Of course  I'll give you that piece of music because it's an inspiration."
Wow.
You  have a lot of difficulties doing a movie. You have to eat a lot of  ka-ka sometimes, but also you get these presents sometimes and it's  really joyful.
Are you going to direct more movies?
Yes I want to.
I'm sure the movie will be successful. It's beautifully done. It's shot by a Hungarian cinematographer?
Yes.  Gerko (Gergely Pohánok, Hukkle, Taxidermia). He's fantastic. You know  why he's fantastic? Because he is a virtuoso. He can do anything. But he  is also very rigorous. There are some beautiful images in Miele but  there were more, he makes it not too beautiful. Too beautiful, delicate  images can breed aestheticism and they don't last long. I didn't want  that. You have to have that rigor not to be too precious about things  and you can imagine Gerko's is rigor because he's Hungarian!
Honey/Miele opens exclusively on Friday, March 7th at the Elinor Bunin Munroe Film Center
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